“I’ll be happy when...” These are four words that have caused a fair bit of misery. It’s easy to imagine a good life as a picture-perfect destination: somewhere we arrive when we have finally eliminated our problems, struggles, and fears. But there is no life where that is possible. Life will always be an experience of wins and challenges; joys and pains; meetings and farewells; transfigurations and disintegrations. There’s no way of escaping this reality, but we do have the power to try and emb